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Why Should I Throw My Wedding Bouquet?

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Wedding DJ in EssexA Fun Tradition With a Modern Twist, From Essex Wedding DJ Ian Stewart

Throwing your bouquet might seem like a small detail in your wedding day, but it’s often one of the most joyful and spontaneous moments of the evening. It’s lighthearted, full of laughter, and makes for some fantastic photos.

As an experienced Wedding DJ in Essex, I’ve seen how this simple tradition can bring a burst of energy to your reception — turning a beautiful moment into something truly unforgettable.

A Moment of Pure Fun

There’s something timeless about that mix of excitement and anticipation when the music starts and everyone gathers behind the bride. The bouquet toss brings everyone together, it’s cheeky, spirited and completely joyful.

Single friends love the friendly competition, and everyone else gets caught up in the cheers and laughter. With the right song playing, it becomes more than just a tradition, it’s a shared moment of fun that gets the whole room buzzing.

Keeping the Energy High

Timing is everything. The bouquet toss works brilliantly as a transition point, often after dinner and before the dance floor officially opens, or between the first dances and the evening buffet.

As your wedding DJ in Essex, we’ll pick the perfect track to set the tone, something playful, upbeat and perfectly timed to build excitement before the next part of the night kicks off. It keeps your guests smiling and sets the stage for a packed dancefloor later on.

Tradition With a Modern Twist

Historically, the bouquet toss symbolised sharing good fortune and love with whoever caught it. These days, it’s less about superstition and more about creating a fun, inclusive moment.

And if you’d rather keep your original bouquet as a keepsake? Easy, have a smaller “throwaway” bouquet made for the occasion, so you can enjoy the moment without worry.

Making It Your Own

Like every part of your wedding, the bouquet toss can reflect your personality. Whether you go for a traditional moment, a choreographed toss to your favourite song, or even something completely unexpected, it’s your story, your style.

I’ve seen brides in Essex mix it up with themes, props, and even letting the groom join in! It’s always a hit and always full of laughter.

Songs for the Bouquet Toss

Music makes the moment,and I’ve created a Spotify playlist filled with fun, empowering and feel-good songs that are perfect for the bouquet toss.

You’ll find favourites like Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It), Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, Where Them Girls At, and plenty of singalong anthems that make the moment shine.

Save the playlist, share it with your bridesmaids, and start planning how you’ll throw that bouquet in style!

Throwing your bouquet isn’t just a tradition; it’s a little piece of theatre that adds laughter, movement and personality to your day.

If you’d like to make your wedding in Essex full of moments like this, together we can the perfect soundtrack, from the first dance to the very last song.

Need more advice for your Essex wedding? Let’s chat about how to make your day perfect! either call 07736 880 790, WhattsApp me here  or email [email protected], or use the short form on this page.

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Your First Dance, The Moment the Music Becomes Yours

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wedding DJ In EssexFrom Essex Wedding DJ Ian Stewart

Your first dance is one of the most emotional and unforgettable moments of your wedding day. It’s that point where everything slows down, the lights soften, and all eyes are on you, not just watching, but feeling the connection between you both.

As an experienced Wedding DJ in Essex, I’ve had the privilege of helping hundreds of couples find that perfect song. Whether it’s a romantic ballad, an acoustic classic, or something completely unexpected, the right track transforms your first dance into something magical.

Finding Your Song

Your first dance should reflect your story. Maybe it’s a song you listened to on your first holiday together, a track from your favourite concert, or a lyric that feels like it was written for you.

It doesn’t matter if it’s slow and soulful or lively and full of energy, what matters is that it feels authentic to you. And don’t worry, I’m here to guide you through it all, helping you find a song that’s not only beautiful, but also easy to dance to and perfect for your style as a couple.

The Style of Your First Dance

Classic Romance: timeless love songs like “At Last” or “Can’t Help Falling in Love” that melt every heart in the room.

Modern Love: emotional ballads from artists like Ed Sheeran, Adele, or James Arthur that speak to a new generation of romance.

Soulful & Smooth: think Al Green, Luther Vandross, or Stevie Wonder, where the groove and lyrics blend into pure magic.

Something Different: upbeat tracks that surprise your guests and set the tone for a lively night ahead — a great way to lead into your evening party!

To help inspire you, I’ve created a Spotify playlist of First Dance favourites a collection of love songs I’ve seen fill dancefloors across Essex for years.

Simply press play below, save your favourites, and start imagining your moment.

From Ed Sheeran’s Perfect to Etta James At Last, these songs have stood the test of time and continue to create unforgettable memories for couples on their special day.

Your first dance doesn’t have to be perfect, it just has to be you. Whether it’s slow and intimate or fun and choreographed, it’s a celebration of your journey together.

As your Wedding DJ in Essex, I’ll help make sure the sound, timing, and lighting all come together so you can just relax, smile, and enjoy that once-in-a-lifetime moment.

If you have any questions, or would like to see about having Essex Wedding DJ Ian Stewart play and introduce the 1st dance at your wedding reception, call 07736 880 790, WhattsApp me here or emailme  [email protected],

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Nina & David’s Real Essex Wedding

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Nina & davids 1st wedding danceA Night to Remember at Saxon Hall, Southend

What an amazing night! This weekend, I had the pleasure of being both DJ and Wedding Host / Master of Ceremonies for Nina and David’s wedding at Saxon Hall in Southend, right here in my hometown.

From the moment guests arrived, you could feel the excitement and warmth in the room. Nina and David are one of those couples who radiate happiness, and their wedding truly reflected their personalities, relaxed, full of laughter, and bursting with energy on the dancefloor.

The First Dance

Their first dance set the tone for the evening, a beautiful moment to Gaz Coombes’ “Don’t Say It’s Over”. You could see how much it meant to them as friends and family gathered around, capturing every second. It was heartfelt, genuine, and the perfect way to open the night.

The Music That Made the Night

As a Wedding DJ in Essex, I work with the couple to always tailor the music to suit theier style, blending their favourite tracks with timeless crowd-pleasers to keep everyone dancing.

Nina and David’s playlist was packed with classics, soul favourites, and high-energy anthems that filled the floor all night long. From Al Green and Aretha Franklin to The Cure, Stevie Wonder, and George Michael, the music flowed perfectly from start to finish.

Once the party really got going, the dancefloor was unstoppable, a mix of disco, pop, funk, 80s, 90s, and modern hits that had everyone singing at the top of their voices.

Here are just a few of the standout tracks from their evening:

Early evening favourites:

  • Al Green – Let’s Stay Together

  • Aretha Franklin – I Say A Little Prayer

  • Stevie Wonder – For Once In My Life

  • Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell – If I Could Build My Whole World Around You

Dancefloor classics:

  • The Scissor Sisters – I Don’t Feel Like Dancin’

  • Barry White – You’re The First, The Last, My Everything

  • Stevie Wonder – Superstition

  • Sister Sledge – We Are Family

  • Earth, Wind & Fire – September

Late-night anthems:

  • Robin S – Show Me Love

  • Faithless – Insomnia

  • Baby D – Let Me Be Your Fantasy

  • Cher – Believe

  • Oasis – Don’t Look Back In Anger

It was one of those nights where every song just worked, pure joy, amazing energy, and a full dancefloor until the very last track.

A Celebration to Remember

What made this Essex wedding so special was how personal it felt. Every detail, from the first dance to the final song, told their story. It was a privilege to be part of it, helping shape those moments that everyone will remember long after the last tune faded.

Congratulations again to Nina & David, and thank you for letting me be part of your incredible celebration at Saxon Hall, Southend.

If you would like to dance to songs like these at your wedding then please either complete the short contact form, email, call WhattsApp me here to see if I am available to be your essex wedding DJ.

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Kelly & Martin’s Real Essex Wedding

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Wedding DJ In EssexA Perfect Celebration at St Osyth Priory

This weekend I had the pleasure of being Wedding DJ for Kelly & Martin’s beautiful wedding at St Osyth Priory, one of Essex’s most historic and romantic venues.

It was the kind of evening every couple dreams of, laughter everywhere, a full dancefloor from start to finish, and the perfect blend of timeless classics and modern favourites.

The First Dance

Kelly & Martin chose John Denver’s “Annie’s Song” for their first dance, a gentle, heartfelt moment that stopped everyone in their tracks. They’d clearly rehearsed it with care, and it set a truly emotional tone before the party began.

The Music That Made the Night

As an experienced Wedding DJ in Essex, I always build each set around the couple’s personality and taste. Kelly & Martin’s playlist mixed soulful favourites, Motown classics, disco grooves and just the right amount of pop and party anthems to keep every generation on their feet.

Disco & Funk Favourites

  • Stevie Wonder – Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)

  • Cheryl Lynn – Got To Be Real

  • Barry White – You’re The First, The Last, My Everything

  • Earth, Wind & Fire – Boogie Wonderland

  • Gap Band – Outstanding

  • The Whispers – And The Beat Goes On

  • Sister Sledge – We Are Family

  • McFadden & Whitehead – Ain’t No Stoppin’ Us Now

Party Anthems & Singalongs

  • Bon Jovi – Livin’ On A Prayer

  • Bryan Adams – Summer Of ’69

  • Kings Of Leon – Sex On Fire

  • The Killers – Mr Brightside

  • Queen – Don’t Stop Me Now

Feel-Good Finishes

  • Lionel Richie – All Night Long

  • ABBA – Thank You For The Music

  • Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell – Ain’t No Mountain High Enough

Every track landed perfectly, pure joy, smiling faces, and an electric atmosphere right through to the final chorus.

A Classic Essex Celebration

Kelly & Martin’s wedding at St Osyth Priory was everything a wedding should be: elegant, relaxed and full of life. It was a real honour to be part of their day and to create a soundtrack that reflected their love and energy.

If you’re planning your own wedding in Essex, I’d love to help you craft a celebration that feels completely yours, full of music, laughter and memories that last a lifetime.

If you would like to dance to songs like these at your wedding then please either complete the short contact form, email, or call/text to see if I am available to be your wedding DJ.

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Maria & Jamie’s Real Essex Wedding

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Essex Wedding DJA Fun-Filled Celebration in Rayleigh

A few weeks ago, I had the pleasure of being both DJ and Wedding Host /  Master of Ceremonies for an old friend, Maria, and her new husband Jamie. Their beautiful ceremony and evening reception took place in a marquee in Rayleigh, Essex, and it couldn’t have been more perfect.

It was one of those weddings that just had everything: sunshine, laughter, and a dancefloor that never emptied. From the very first song, the energy in the marquee was incredible.

The First Dance

Maria and Jamie opened the evening with KSI’s “Holiday” a fresh, modern choice that suited them perfectly. The moment felt relaxed, joyful, and completely “them”, setting the tone for what became one of the most vibrant parties I’ve played in Essex this summer.

A Soundtrack Full of Soul, Funk & Floorfillers

As an experienced Wedding DJ in Essex, I always build a playlist that reflects the couple’s personality and keeps every generation engaged. Maria and Jamie wanted their night to feel like a journey through their shared love of music, from smooth soul and disco to R&B, garage and big dancefloor anthems.

Soul & Feel-Good Grooves

  • Luther Vandross – Never Too Much

  • Barry White – You’re The First, The Last, My Everything

  • Stevie Wonder – Superstition

  • Sister Sledge – Thinking Of You

Disco, Funk & House Classics

  • Earth, Wind & Fire – September

  • Jocelyn Brown – Somebody Else’s Guy

  • Alison Limerick – Where Love Lives

  • CeCe Peniston – Finally

  • Robin S – Show Me Love

Modern Dance & UK Garage Vibes

  • Artful Dodger & Robbie Craig Ft Craig David – Re-Rewind

  • Sweet Female Attitude – Flowers

  • DJ Luck & MC Neat – Masterblaster 2000

  • So Solid Crew – 21 Seconds

  • B15 Project – Girls Like Us

Late-Night Anthems & Singalongs

  • Kings of Leon – Sex On Fire

  • The Killers – Mr Brightside

  • Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes – (I’ve Had) The Time of My Life

  • Don McLean – American Pie

  • Spice Girls – DMC Mega Mix

By the end of the night, everyone, from the youngest guests to the grandparents,  were up dancing, smiling and singing along.

A Night to Remember in Rayleigh

Maria and Jamie’s wedding was the perfect example of what I love about Essex weddings, relaxed, fun, and full of personality. It was a real honour to play for such a lovely couple and help create the soundtrack to their unforgettable day.

If you’re planning your own wedding in Essex and want a wedding DJ who can read the crowd, blend your favourite genres and keep the dancefloor full all night, I’d love to help make it happen. Please complete the short contact form, email,  call or WhattsApp me here to see if I am available to be your wedding DJ.

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Top 200 Requested Wedding Songs

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Top 200 Requested Wedding Songs

Every wedding dancefloor tells its own story, but some songs are timeless. Each year, my booking software, DJ Event Planner — compiles data from thousands of real weddings to reveal the most requested songs.

Here are the top 200 songs that couples across the UK have chosen for their wedding celebrations last year. You’ll find everything from disco classics to modern anthems that keep guests singing all night long.

 

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  1. The Killers – Mr Brightside (1)
  2. Abba – Dancing Queen (3)
  3. Whitney Houston – I Wanna Dance With Somebody (2)
  4. Neil Diamond – Sweet Caroline (4)
  5. Sophie Ellis-Bextor – Murder On The Dancefloor (95)
  6. Toploader – Dancing In The Moonlight (6)
  7. Walk The Moon – Shut Up & Dance (7)
  8. Bon Jovi – Livin’ On A Prayor (5)
  9. Taylor Swift – Love Story (27)
  10. Earth Wind & Fire – September (9)
  11. Shania Twain – Man! I Feel Like A Woman! (17)
  12. Dexys Midnight Runners – Come On Eileen (10)
  13. Bryan Adams – Summer Of 69 (8)
  14. Wheatus – Teenage Dirtbag (15)
  15. Arctic Monkeys – I Bet You Look Good On The Danceflloor (12)
  16. Kings Of Leon – Sex On Fire (11)
  17. Ike & Tina Turner – Proud Mary (13)
  18. Beyonce Ft Jay-Z – Crazy In Love (16)
  19. Gala – Freed From Desire (23)
  20. Mark Ronson Ft Bruno Mars – Uptown Funk (14)
  21. Natasha Bedingfield – Unwritten (_)
  22. ABBA – Gimme! Gimme! Gimme! (A Man After Midnight) (96)
  23. Black Eyed Peas – I Gotta Feeling (20)
  24. Sean Paul – Temperature (33)
  25. Queen – Don’t Stop Me Now (18)
  26. Rihanna Ft Calvin Harris – We Found Love (21)
  27. Oasis – Wonderwall (25)
  28. Journey – Don’t Stop Believin’ (19)
  29. Spice Girls – Wannabe (25)
  30. Robin S – Show Me Love (26)
  31. DJ Casper – Cha Cha Slide (22)
  32. ABBA – Mamma Mia (29)
  33. Cyndi Lauper – Girls Just Want To Have Fun (28)
  34. Chris Brown – Forever (61)
  35. Outkast – Hey Ya! (31)
  36. Candi Staton – Young Hearts Run Free (40)
  37. Usher – Yeah! (39)
  38. Taylor Swift – Shake It Off (35)
  39. Mark Ronson Ft Amy Winehouse – Valerie (34)
  40. Cher – Believe (55)
  41. Blink-182 – All The Small Things (41)
  42. Los Del Rio – Macarena (32)
  43. Fratellis – Chelsea Dagger (38)
  44. Flo Rida Ft T-Pain – Low (46)
  45. Bruno Mars – Marry You (30)
  46. Rick Astley – Never Gonna Give You Up (47)
  47. Luther Vandross – Never Too Much (23)
  48. S Club 7 – Reach (37)
  49. Cascada – Everytime We Touch (123)
  50. Wham! – Wake Me Up Before You GoGo (36)
  51. Guns N’ Roses – Sweet Child O’ Mine (42)
  52. Coldplay – A Sky Full Of Stars (92)
  53. Erasure – A Little Respect (68)
  54. Lou Bega – Mambo No. 5 (53)
  55. Kenny Loggins – Footloose (44)
  56. Elton John – I’m Still Standing (52)
  57. Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes – (I’d Had The) Time Of My Life (54)
  58. Village People – YMCA (49)
  59. Queen – Bohemian Rhapsody (45)
  60. Backstreet Boys – Everybody (Backstreet Back) (65)
  61. B-52’s – Love Shack (50)
  62. Snap! – Rhythm Is A Dancer (51)
  63. Van Morrison – Brown Eyed Girl (48)
  64. Rednex – Cotton Eye Joe (58)
  65. Tina Turner – The Best (62)
  66. Shakira – Hips Don’t Lie (57)
  67. Dolly Parton – 9 To 5 (63)
  68. B*Witched – C’est La Vie (70)
  69. Robbie Williams – Rock DJ (82)
  70. Florence & The Machine / The Source Ft Candi Staton – You Got The Love (60)
  71. Oasis – Don’t Look Back In Anger (73)
  72. Sweet Female Attitude – Flowers (64)
  73. P!nk – Raise Your Glass (78)
  74. Miley Cyrus – Party In The USA (135)
  75. Sean Paul – Get Busy (86)
  76. The Jacksons – Blame It On The Boogie (71)
  77. House Of Pain – Jump Around (59)
  78. Whitney Houston – How Will I Know (79)
  79. Steps – 5678 (75)
  80. TLC – No Scubs (88)
  81. The Weeknd – Blinding Lights (67)
  82. Sister Sledge – We Are Family (69)
  83. Foundations – Build Me Up Buttercup (66)
  84. Lionel Richie – All Night Long (72)
  85. ABBA – Waterloo (84)
  86. A-Ha – Take On Me (85)
  87. Cameo – Candy (108)
  88. Venga Boys – Boom, Boom, Boom (107)
  89. Smash Mouth – All Star (136)
  90. Billy Joel – Uptown Girl (80)
  91. John Travolta & Olivia Newton John – Grease Megamix (74)
  92. Beyonce – Single Ladies (Put A Ring On It) (56)
  93. The Proclaimers – I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles) (83)
  94. Scouting For Girls – She’s So Lovely (172)
  95. Whigfield – Saturday Night (91)
  96. Shaboozey – A Bar Song (Tipsy) (_)
  97. Busted – Crashed The Wedding (168)
  98. Busted/Jonas Bros – Year 3000 (142)
  99. Pitbull Ft Ne-Yo – Give Me Everything (110)
  100. Beyonce – Love On Top (94)
  101. Ultrabeat – Pretty Green Eyes (175)
  102. Darkness – I Believe In A Thing Called Love (200)
  103. Majestic & Boney M – Rasputin (130)
  104. One Direction – What Makes You Beautiful (109)
  105. Pibull Ft Kesha – Timber (116)
  106. The Beatles – Twist & Shout (76)
  107. Toto – Africa (90)
  108. The Courteeners – Not Nineteen Forever (124)
  109. Stevie Wonder – Signed, Sealed Delivered (I’m Yours) (103)
  110. Bruce Springsteen – Dancing In The Dark (119)
  111. Ed Sheeran – Perfect (89)
  112. Kanye West – Gold Digger (106)
  113. Robbie Williams – Angels (148)
  114. The Weather Girls – It’s Raining Men (129)
  115. Avicii – Wake Me Up (97)
  116. Estelle – American Boy (170)
  117. Calvin Harris & Dua Lipa – One Kiss (98)
  118. Queen – Crazy Little Thing Called Love (99)
  119. LMFAO – Party Rock Anthem (113)
  120. Swedish House Mafia – Don’t Worry Child (122)
  121. UB40 – Red Red Wine (101)
  122. George Ezra – Shotgun (77)
  123. Fleetwood Mac – Go Your Own Way (93)
  124. Luis Fonsi Ft Daddy Yankee – Despacito (81)
  125. Faithless – Insomnia (118)
  126. Avicii – Levels (125)
  127. Michael Jackson – Billie Jean (112)
  128. Daft Punk – One More Time (183)
  129. Earth Wind & Fire Ft The Emotions – Boogie Wonderland (132)
  130. Fleetwood Mac – Everywhere (141)
  131. Billy Ocean – Red Light Spells Danger (184)
  132. Oasis – Champagne Supernova (143)
  133. Nicki Minaj – Starships (162)
  134. Pitbull – Fireball (_)
  135. Spice Girls – Spice Up Your Life (140)
  136. Ricky Martin – Livin’ La Vida Loca (192)
  137. Backstreet Boys – I Want It That Way (178)
  138. Pharrell Williams – Happy (102)
  139. Katrina & The Waves – Walking On Sunshine (105)
  140. Stevie Wonder – Superstition (100)
  141. N-Trance – Set You Free (167)
  142. Elvis Presley – Can’t Help Falling In Love (114)
  143. The Temptations – My Girl (128)
  144. Kool & The Gang – Celebration (131)
  145. Marvin Gaye & Tami Terrell – Ain’t No Mountain High Enough (165)
  146. Softcell – Tainted Love (120)
  147. ELO – Mr Blue Sky (137)
  148. Justin Timberlake – Can’t Stop The Feeling (104)
  149. Maroon 5 – Moves Like Jagger (117)
  150. Drake – One Dance (138)
  151. ABBA – Take A Chance On Me (182)
  152. Bee Gees – Stayin’ Alive (127)
  153. Kygo & Whitney Houston / Steve Winwood – Higher Love (121)
  154. The Supremes – You Can’t Hurry Love (111)
  155. Cobra Starship – You Make Me Feel (158)
  156. Olly Murs – Dance With Me Tonight (126)
  157. The Game – Dreams (181)
  158. David Bowie – Let’s Dance (134)
  159. Kevin Lyttle – Turn Me On (145)
  160. David Guetta Ft Sia – Titanium (133)
  161. The Goo Goo Dolls – Iris (174)
  162. Noah Kahan – Stick Season (_)
  163. Take That – Never Forget (115)
  164. Macklemore & Ryan Lewis – Can’t Hold Us (_)
  165. Ed Sheeran – Bad Habits (87)
  166. R Kelly – Ignition (Remix) (162)
  167. Harry Styles – Watermelon Sugar (157)
  168. Rocky Horror Picture Show – The Time Warp (139)
  169. Human League – Don’t You Want Me (164)
  170. Michael Jackson – Don’t  Stop ‘Til You Get Enough (151)
  171. Paramore – Still Into You (_)
  172. Coldplay – Viva La Vida (_)
  173. Hall & Oates – You Make My Dreams Come True (144)
  174. DJ Sammy – Heaven (191)
  175. Sabrina Carpenter – Espresso (_)
  176. Aerosmith – I Don’t Want To Miss A Thing (150)
  177. Paul Simon – You Can Call Me Al (160)
  178. Billy Ocean – Love Really Hurts Without You (_)
  179. Haddaway – What Is Love (156)
  180. Rihanna – Don’t Stop The Music (186)
  181. Benson Boone – Beautiful Things (_)
  182. Take That Ft Lulu – Relight My Fire (173)
  183. John Denver / Hermes House Band – Take Me Home Country Roads (_)
  184. Avril Lavigne – Sk8er Boi (_)
  185. Rudimental – Feel The Love (187)
  186. Ben E King – Stand By Me (198)
  187. Pitbull & Ne-Yo – Time Of Our Lives (_)
  188. Madonna – Like A Prayor (_)
  189. Four Seasons Ft Frankie Valli – December 1963 (Oh, What A Night) (155)
  190. Pitbull – Hotel Room Service (_)
  191. OMI – Cheerleader (146)
  192. Soul II Soul – Keep On Movin’ (193)
  193. Madness – One Step Beyond (163)
  194. Katy Perry – Firework (196)
  195. Kenny Rogers & Dolly Parton – Islands In The Stream (_)
  196. Natalie Cole – This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) (_)
  197. Maroon 5 – Sugar (153)
  198. Shania Twain – That Don’t Impress Me Much (_)
  199. Wild Cherry – Play That Funky Music (177)
  200. Barry White – You’re The First, The Last, My Everything (199)

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Looking for the perfect soundtrack for your own wedding?

As an award-winning Wedding DJ based in Essex, I use this data alongside your personal requests to create a bespoke playlist that fits your style and keeps your dancefloor full all night. Whether it’s soul, disco, house or pop, your wedding music should feel like you. Then either call on 07736-880 790, WhattsApp me here, or email me at [email protected], or complete the short form here

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Yiota & Trevor’s Real Essex Wedding

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Wedding DJ In EssexA Joy-Filled Celebration at Blake Hall, Ongar

On Saturday, I was back at one of my favourite Essex wedding venues, the beautiful Blake Hall in Ongar.

This was a wedding full of fun, laughter and incredible energy. The evening began with a live Greek-themed function band that got everyone clapping and dancing, before I took over alongside the super-talented May (Girls On Sax) for a night that no one will forget.

The combination of live sax and DJ created a vibrant party atmosphere, the perfect soundtrack for Yiota & Trevor’s big day.

The Music That Made the Night

As an expierenced Wedding DJ in Essex, I love bringing together different musical influences to create a celebration that feels unique to each couple.


Yiota & Trevor’s playlist blended soul, disco, house, and those essential party anthems that filled the dancefloor from the first track to the last.

Uplifting Soul & Disco Classics

  • Barry White – You’re The First, The Last, My Everything

  • The Trammps – Disco Inferno

  • Candi Staton – Young Hearts Run Free

  • Luther Vandross – Never Too Much

Dancefloor Anthems & Club Favourites

  • Avicii – Levels

  • Daft Punk – One More Time

  • Beyond Chicago x Majestic – Million Dollar Bill

  • Faithless – Insomnia

  • SL2 – On A Ragga Tip

Party Essentials

  • Whitney Houston – I Wanna Dance With Somebody

  • Beyoncé Ft Jay-Z – Crazy In Love

  • Kevin Lyttle – Turn Me On

  • Shakira Ft Wyclef Jean – Hips Don’t Lie

  • The Killers – Mr Brightside

And of course, the night finished on a high with sing-along favourites including “Wonderwall” and “(I’ve Had) The Time Of My Life.”

A Night to Remember at Blake Hall

Yiota & Trevor’s Essex wedding at Blake Hall was everything a celebration should be, joyful, high-energy, and completely personal.

It was a real pleasure to work alongside the live band and May on sax, bringing together live performance and DJ entertainment to create a night their guests will never forget.

If you’re planning your own wedding in Essex and want a party that feels full of life, energy and personality, I’d love to help you create the perfect soundtrack. Please either call Essex Wedding DJ Ian Stewart on 07736-880 790, WhattsApp me here, email at [email protected] or complete the contact form here

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Samantha & Tom’s Real Essex Wedding

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Essex Wedding DJA Beautiful Barn Celebration at Blake Hall, Ongar

On Saturday 27th May, I had the pleasure of being Wedding DJ and Wedding Host & Master of Ceremonies for Samantha & Tom’s wedding at Blake Hall in Ongar, one of my favourite Essex wedding venues.

Blake Hall is the perfect setting for an Essex barn wedding: timeless, elegant, and surrounded by beautiful countryside. Samantha & Tom’s day was filled with laughter, dancing, and non-stop fun, exactly what every couple dreams their wedding day will be.

All-Day Entertainment and Personal Touches

I was with Samantha & Tom throughout the day, providing background music, introductions, and hosting, before turning the barn into a lively evening party.

Their wedding breakfast featured elegant classical music covers, setting a relaxed atmosphere before the dancefloor came alive later in the evening.

The First Dances

Their first dance was “Always Remember Us This Way” by Lady Gaga, a beautiful, emotional moment that had everyone gathered around the floor.

That was followed by a touching father–daughter dance, “I Loved Her First” by Heartland, before the party officially began.

Essex Wedding DJ Playlist

The evening kicked off with a crowd favourite, Toploader’s “Dancing In The Moonlight”, chosen by Tom and his best man Josh, and from there, it was all smiles and feet on the dancefloor until the very last song.

Early Evening Warm-Up

  • Ed Sheeran – Eyes Closed

  • Taylor Swift – Love Story

  • Elvis Presley – Can’t Help Falling In Love

  • Bob Marley – Is This Love

Party Highlights

  • Whitney Houston – How Will I Know

  • Barry White – You’re The First, The Last, My Everything

  • Earth Wind & Fire – September

  • Black Eyed Peas – I Gotta Feeling

  • Rihanna Ft Calvin Harris – We Found Love

  • Robin S – Show Me Love

  • Beyoncé Ft Jay-Z – Crazy In Love

  • Bon Jovi – Livin’ On A Prayer

  • The Killers – Mr Brightside

  • Queen – Don’t Stop Me Now

  • Oasis – Wonderwall

Finale
The night finished with the timeless “(I’ve Had) The Time of My Life”…. the perfect song to end an evening full of joy, dancing, and happy memories.

A Night to Remember in Essex

Samantha & Tom’s wedding was everything an Essex celebration should be, heartfelt, relaxed, and full of love. From emotional moments to sing-along anthems, the dancefloor was packed from start to finish.

If you’re planning your own wedding at Blake Hall in Ongar or anywhere across Essex, I’d love to help you create a soundtrack that reflects your story and keeps your guests dancing all night. So please either call Essex Wedding DJ Ian Stewart on 07736-880 790, WhattsApp me here, email me at [email protected] or complete the contact form here

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Frankie & Richard’s Real Essex Wedding

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A Magical Celebration at Channels, Chelmsford

Wedding DJ In EssexOn Friday night, I had the pleasure of being the wedding DJ at Channels in Chelmsford, a stunning rustic barn venue that’s perfect for relaxed yet elegant Essex weddings.

Frankie and Richard had already filled the afternoon with live music during their wedding breakfast, so my job was to take the reins for the evening and keep the energy high from the moment the first dance began. The result? A packed dancefloor, huge smiles, and one incredible celebration that summed up everything I love about being a wedding DJ in Essex.

The First Dance

The newlyweds chose “You’ve Got The Love” by Zak Abel, a soulful, heartfelt moment that set the tone for the night. Then came a touching father-daughter dance to “My Girl” by The Temptations, which had everyone smiling.

Essex Wedding DJ Playlist

From timeless Motown and disco grooves to 2000s party anthems and UK Garage classics, this set had something for everyone.

Early Evening Warm-Up
Natalie Cole – This Will Be
Hall & Oates – You Make My Dreams
Whitney Houston – How Will I Know
Barry White – You’re My First, My Last, My Everything
Earth, Wind & Fire – September

Dancefloor Favourites
Mark Ronson Ft Bruno Mars – Uptown Funk
Rihanna Ft Calvin Harris – We Found Love
Fatman Scoop – Be Faithful
Usher Ft Lil’ Jon & Ludacris – Yeah!
Justin Timberlake – Can’t Stop The Feeling
Whitney Houston – I Wanna Dance With Somebody

Throwback Classics
The Trammps – Disco Inferno
Candi Staton – Young Hearts Run Free
Sister Sledge – We Are Family
ABBA – Dancing Queen
Dexys Midnight Runners – Come On Eileen
The Killers – Mr Brightside
Kings Of Leon – Sex On Fire

UK Garage & Club Favourites
Artful Dodger Ft Craig David – Re-Rewind
DJ Luck & MC Neat – Masterblaster 2000
Sweet Female Attitude – Flowers
So Solid Crew – 21 Seconds
Livin’ Joy – Dreamer
Faithless – Insomnia
Avicii – Levels

Final Singalongs
Florence & The Machine – You’ve Got The Love
Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes – (I’ve Had) The Time of My Life

A Night to Remember

There’s something special about barn weddings in Essex, the combination of rustic charm and incredible energy always creates a fantastic atmosphere. Frankie and Richard’s night at Channels was no exception. It was one of those evenings where the dancefloor never emptied and every song felt like the perfect choice.

If you’re planning your own celebration at Channels in Chelmsford or looking for an experienced wedding DJ in Essex, I’d love to help make your evening unforgettable.

Please either call Essex Wedding DJ Ian Stewart on 07736-880 790, WhattsApp me here, email at [email protected] or complete the contact form here

Wedding DJ Last Dance

The Perfect Ending to Your Wedding Party

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How to Finish Your Essex Wedding on a High

Wedding DJ Last DanceWhen I meet couples across Essex to plan their wedding, we always talk about the big moments, the ceremony, the first dance, the speeches. But one moment that’s often overlooked is how the night ends.

The final song is the last memory of your wedding day. It’s the moment that seals the atmosphere, leaves your guests smiling, and often becomes the part everyone remembers most.

As your Essex Wedding DJ, I’ll help you plan a finale that feels personal, emotional, and unforgettable. Whether that means everyone arm-in-arm singing your favourite anthem or a romantic last dance just for the two of you, we’ll end your night in a way that reflects you perfectly.

Ways to End the Night

Every couple is unique, and the way you finish your wedding should reflect your personalities. Here are some of the most popular ways couples I’ve worked with across Essex have chosen to close their celebrations.

The Circle of Love

A heartfelt way to say goodbye. Your guests form a circle around the dancefloor while you and your partner either dance in the middle or walk around thanking everyone. It’s emotional, full of smiles, and a beautiful moment for your photographer to capture.

The Archway

Guests form two lines and join hands to create an archway. You can walk or run through together as your final song plays, the perfect mix of laughter, love, and celebration. Afterwards, you can make your grand exit or stay for one final singalong.

The Big Anthem

If you want to end with everyone on the dancefloor, this is the one. Choose a massive singalong track, the kind where every voice joins in and the room feels electric. It’s how many of the best wedding parties in Essex end, full of energy, love, and joy.

The Slow Dance

For a romantic ending, you can’t beat a slow song. Many couples replay their first dance to bring the day full circle — the perfect way to hold each other close before the lights go up.

Song Ideas for Your Last Dance

Here are some timeless favourites that always create the perfect wedding finale.

Timeless Classics
Luther Vandross – Always & Forever
Frank Sinatra – My Way
Louis Armstrong – What a Wonderful World
Jackie Wilson – Higher & Higher

Big Anthems
Queen – Don’t Stop Me Now
Take That – Never Forget
Florence & The Machine – You’ve Got The Love
Oasis – Champagne Supernova

Romantic Endings
Shania Twain – You’re Still The One
Lonestar – Amazed
Beyoncé – Still In Love
Maria McKee – Show Me Heaven

Feel Good Farewells
ABBA – Thank You For The Music
Tony Christie – (Is This The Way To) Amarillo
Vera Lynn – Wish Me Luck As You Wave Me Goodbye

Listen on Spotify

I’ve created a special Spotify playlist to inspire your own wedding finale, filled with the most-loved songs from real weddings I’ve DJ’d across Essex. Save it, share it, and start imagining how your night could end.

Make It Yours

Whether it’s laughter, tears, or that one last song where everyone’s singing together, the end of your wedding deserves as much care as the start.

As an experienced Wedding DJ in Essex, I’ll help you craft a finale that feels completely personal, the perfect ending to a day that’s been all about you.

If you would like to chat about how we can create an amazing end to your wedding reception, either call me on 07736-880 790, WhattsApp me here or email me at [email protected] or fill in the short contact form here.